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Are you getting in your own way?

Time stamped show notes:

Charlene is an intuitive strategist. She's grateful for her Caribbean vacation and rejuvenation. 

01:02 Challenge: As a healer, I've healed some amazing things – brain tumor, broken bones – but I'm not able to heal myself. So that looks like asking for support. I know master healers, but I'm having a hard time reaching out to them to ask for support. 

01:42 To paraphrase: You're feeling blocked asking for the help that you need? You know who to ask, you're just blocked?

01:46 Yes. It's silly. I know that the people I should ask for help are also overwhelmed. 

02:16 Suggestion: I have a bunion that's causing a lot of pain. I've been able to get 23% improvement, but I'm stuck. So because I'm so aware, I'm not allowing myself to heal. 

02:40 Suggestion: Because they are busy this week, reach out and say, “I have this going on, I know you're busy, do you have any time next week?” Then it's less urgent, but allows them to find time. 

03:29 Suggestion: My impression of your two people is that they heal because it's life affirming for them. Is it possible that you're making up a story about their time is best spent by not asking them to be there for you? 

03:42 Absolutely. It's me not feeling worthy to receive their help right now. 

03:50 Question: Do you think you'd be willing to take that risk?

03:51 Probably not this week, but next week. I'm 100% aware that I'm blocking myself. Me talking always helps me become aware of what I'm doing. 

04:36 Suggestion: Say you don't reach out. You have your surgery. You meet up with them six months later and tell them that you didn't reach out at the time because of XY or Z. How would they respond? 

04:47 They'd probably be angry with me. 

04:54 Question: What's the worst that could happen? 

05:15 I think the biggest thing is that I still haven't come to terms with the fact that I can't heal myself. I'm stubborn. I want to it myself.

05:30 You ARE doing it yourself if you ask. 

05:38 That's exactly what I needed. Thank you! 

Three Key Points:

  1. You ARE doing it yourself if you ask.
  2. What’s the worst that could happen?
  3. Ask yourself if you’re getting in your own way.